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“Lately, I can’t get to sleep if I don’t masturbate first. I toss and turn for about an hour and, right after I have an orgasm, I just fall asleep like a baby. Is that normal? Should I see a therapist or something?” - Anon Honey,
Video: how to make a girl squirt. So, this might work for some of you! It’s basically how to stimulate the G-spot. Just seeing how much she’s convulsing makes my ladyparts kinda twitch too… mmmf. [more tips on how to squirt]
“Okay, so here’s the thing. When I masturbate, I don’t think about anything. Usually you hear stories of people thinking about someone going down on them, but most of the time, I either run over what I’m supposed to do today, or
“Just for the previous asker: yes, all of us men love to make a woman wet! No matter what it takes, we universally and unequivocally will love it, the wetter, the hornier the better. It’s pretty much what we’re after, we don’t
Two guys write to say: “I just wanted to say, "fuck yeah!” for the Love Your Labia post. Every girlfriend I’ve ever had, has had big labia compared to the porn stereotype, and big labia are fun to rub, play with, spread, suck, mmmhm
“Is it harmful if I get water in my vagina? I’m really scared it’ll hurt and I try to get off with the shower head or with the faucet on, but I’m super-scared the water will hurt or that it’ll rip or hurt something else insid
“OK, so I really really REALLY wanna experiment with one of my friends - but I have no idea how to ask her or bring up the subject at all. While I consider myself a straight female, I can definitely appreciate a woman’s body and want to
“Whenever I have an orgasm, I lose my hearing for a short time. Only maybe a minute or two and then it comes right back. I imagine it’s normal, but have you heard of anything like that?” - katiesoandso2spooky Yep, a quick Google says
“I have been trying to scissor with my girlfriend and i seem to be having a lot of trouble doing so. I guess i just dont even understand how it works, or what position to get into. I really want to do it because i feel like it would feel good and
“Is squirting NOT the same as peeing? My partner says squirting is just losing control of your bladder because of the constant pressure on it. I know some girls REALLY have to pee after squirting, but still…?” - Anon Unbelievably, scien
equalseleventhirds: the-deviations: firegrowshigher: slutofbabylon: The powers that be do not want me to have a good night. Man, let’s say you’re at a party, yeah? And there are people at the party that prefer cake, and people at the party
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“Is it normal that right after I get to the climax, I feel like something beating down there, next to my vagina? its like a heart beat that fades away slowly… Is it normal? Thanks!” - Anon Yep! When you climax, everything down there
“You know how everyone always complains when they get the bottom bunk? Well, let me say otherwise. When my roommate left for break, I discovered *just* how amazing they are. If you want to try a new position, those bars that hold the top mattress
From anon: Holy, shit. Okay, I’ve tried masturbating before, but couldn’t really get off from it. Being rather uneducated on the matter, I thought masturbating, if you had a vagina, was just pushing your fingers in and out, or using dildos or vibrators.
A guy writes in about an earlier post ’what else can I do while I’m giving my guy a handjob?’: You shouldn’t feel like you need to say something - for me it’s mostly a turn off if the girl keeps talking and I start feeling
So, I wrote about how to have fun (and not freak out!) the first time you get up-close-and-personal with a dick. And… “I did it! thank you so much! you gave me so much confidence :) it’s like 2 AM and he just left be he said he loved
“To have an orgasm, I have to tense up my calves and thighs - so much so, sometimes my calves cramp up. Is this normal?” - Anon Yep, this sort of thing is super common!* Especially the tensed-up legs thing, but other girls have to have their
“Sometimes the consistency of my natural vaginal lubrication during arousal is clear & runny like saliva, and at other times thicker and more cloudy almost like mucus. Why is this the case and is it common? Does it depend on my level of arousal?
“So, for the first amazing time ever, my boyfriend made me squirt! (Apparently, he had been studying up, bless his soul, and figured out the secrets.) However, when its happening, it doesn’t squirt out like in the videos. I was wondering
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Masturbation and guilty feelings“I feel so dirty after I masturbate. I mean, I get so riled up before that I’m just like "do it do it do it!” and it feels really nice when I *am* doing it… but then after, I feel gross and
itscandidlycara: A quick visual guide to the hymen. Yay, diagrams! Also, see a previous post: “‘Help, am I still a virgin?’ and other penetration questions.”
“I dont really fantasize when i masturbate, but close to climaxing someone will usually pop into my head. I never thought much about it, because it’s always people im attracted to. Last time, though, my best guy friend (who I’ve known
“I have been trying to squirt for AGES and tried today while sitting on the toilet - I figured I might relax better because there would be no mess to clean up. I peed beforehand so my bladder was empty. I played with my G-spot (your instructions)
“Hi, how do you masturbate with water in the shower properly? I’m scared to get water inside me. I don’t wanna ’turn myself into a ballon’ and I’ve been scared to masturbate this way since then. Any helpful tips or
More posts about getting off hands-free: I was reading the posts about hands-free masturbation and I’m glad to see so many others like me! I can make myself come by crossing my legs and pressing, while doing kegels and thinking really dirty
“I saw the post about the girl squirting on the toilet. I finger myself on the toilet sometimes, not the clit, just inside myself. If I hit the right spot, I get the sensation like needing-to-pee, and after about 30 seconds a small amount of clear
“Every time I’ve done something ‘sexual’ with my boyfriend, we’ve been clothed. For example, I’ve gave him handjobs through his trousers, and he’s got me off through my jeans. Neither of us have touched each other
“I was on my bed and started touching my clit. Then I started rubbing faster and faster and my entire body started shaking. After, I felt kind of shaky, but it felt so good a few minutes later I was just sitting at my laptop and it happened again.
“When I masturbate, it’s actually easier for me to get off if I do it through my underwear. I feel like I’m weird because of it! My boyfriend also likes to watch me do it, so I kind of pretend I enjoy it while completely naked…
“I just tried the showerhead thing and OHMYGOD - best orgasm ever! My legs were shaking sooo bad afterward and I had to finish shaving my legs so it was a tad bit difficult. Still, thank you for your wonderful blog(:” “I would like
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“So, recently I found out I’m been able to squirt! But I always thought I needed to rub my G-spot to get that way. So I. thought I’d be safe just rubbing my clit a little one night… but I ended up squirting. Is that not normal?
“I got my first vibrator about a month ago, and though it does feel amazing, I noticed my clit is way less sensitive since I’ve started using it. I can still have orgasms with no problem, but it takes 7-10 minutes instead of the usual 5.
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“Is there a blog like yours for guys?” I don’t know about blogs specifically for guys, but here’s a list of other sex advice blogs :)
How can I get off using my boobs? “Usually, my breasts aren’t that sensitive. But lately, every time I’m getting off, my nipples get super hard and sensitive and my boobs just *crave* attention! This is kind of a new thing for me, and
Always brush twice daily… “God bless the electric toothbrush!” “I was just reading your amazing blog and I saw a thing on electric toothbrushes, I grabbed an old one from the cupboard and held it against my clit. I orgasmed in
I felt… something! Was that an orgasm? “I masturbated for the first time two weeks ago and I think I orgasmed the first time? One of my legs kept kind of twitching, my body kept clenching, I kept bucking my hips, it felt like all of the
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“My male lover always sneezes when he orgasms. Is that normal? He does it almost every time and sometimes he accidentally headbutts me when he does it.” This isn’t especially common, but it is a ‘thing’ - there’s
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How to flirt with another girl… “I always have these really hot fantasies about my friend, and one of them is just us making out and that turns me on. How do I see if she wants to do things without creeping her out?” “How
"I can't orgasm with my partner, even though I can by myself - help!"
“So, sometimes I’m getting off and feeling good and I’m getting all shaky and tense etc, and then my orgasm just kind of… disappears? Like nothing good happens AT ALL, but at the same time I’m just pretty much done. What
“Is it strange for after the first time you orgasm to want to do it again and again and feel a lot more horny all of the time? Because I’ve found that after that first time a few days ago… I just want to keep going and going!”
things people like to hear in bed...
“I know there are a lot of questions and stories about having a sexual active relationship with a close female friend. I had always wanted one, but never thought I would have the opportunity. That is…up until about a month ago. I recently
“Is it awkward to enjoy nipple play too much? In my sexual experiences, I have noticed that without nipple play I will not get off. Am I awkwardly sexual?” Nope, that’s not awkward at all! I mean, nothing is inherently awkward, but
“My boyfriend and i are planning on having a threesome, we are both really excited about it, but at the same time I’m kind of nervous. I personally have never been with a girl, so even though i know what all goes on down there and I’ve
"No matter what I try, I just can't orgasm!"
“Is it common to actually get turned on by giving pleasure rather then receiving it? My ex and I would make out a lot and he would always try to get me turned on and try to finger me but while I was damp down there, it wasn’t dramatic. One
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