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self-healing: i think the funniest and realist thing i’ve realized lately is how troubling idealization can be. every person is just… a person. the very people you want to impress or be apart of are just people. even if they seem wildly intimidating
sunflorally: you’ve tried hating yourself and it’s gotten you nowhere; try loving yourself and see what happens
suinhe:A note to all women
fini-mun: squareclocks: I fucking hate it when you’re in such a fantastically giddy mood and then you see one simple little thing that makes you think, “oh” and then you just get this empty feeling in your chest and you get nauseous and the world
difficultsuggestions: Grow from the dirt that they left you in
counsellorsuggestion: rottentrauma: counsellorsuggestion: stop insulting yourself. it doesn’t help. But what if it’s true it still doesn’t help. you can call yourself as many names as you want, but it won’t make you a better, happier, healthier
ironmanlesbian: you can’t cure mental illness but you CAN treat it, please don’t get caught in the trap of “i’m just this way, i’m a piece of shit, i won’t get better.” positive self talk can help you, even if you don’t believe a word
unskinny:Bodies aren’t meant to stay the same. We are supposed to grow and change. We shouldn’t be making people in their 30’s, 40’s, 50’s, etc feel like they need to strive for the bodies they had in their teens and 20’s. Or making people
illicitbehaviour: you deserve to be loved without having to hide the parts of yourself that you think are unlovable.
wholeheartedsuggestions: resist the urge to give up on healing just because it is slow
lohver:growth isn’t always constant. relapses happen. it doesn’t erase all your success.
wholesome-suggestion: life gets better once you start doing your own thing. stop comparing yourself to others and if that means getting rid of social media than get rid of social media. it means to stop with the negative self talk, your brain is lying
somnoroasa: “I try to teach clients that suppressing what you want is not the way to go. You have to radically accept that you want something, you don’t have it, and it’s not a catastrophe.” — Marsha Linehan on Radical Acceptance
runawayrat: Recovery doesnt have to mean becoming neurotypical??? It means being the healthiest version of yourself that you can be. It means accepting help and not generalising the idea of therapy as bullshit. It means actually trying to better yourself
oaluz: I know no one who has embraced a love ethic whose life has not become joyous and more fulfilling. The widespread assumption that ethical behaviour takes the fun out of life is false. In actuality, living ethically ensures that relationships in
byrneing:today my therapist told me that sometimes negative feelings like guilt, anxiety, self loathing, etc are like the hiccups. they’re uncomfortable, we don’t like them, there’s no way to turn them off; they can even be incapacitating for a
smelsea: From the Dialectical Behavior Therapy Skills Handbook [pdf]
elizabitchdarcy: not to be preachy or like a hippy but fr the only point to any and all of this is kindness and love and friendship and making sincere connections with others
fireable:for all ppl who are healing at a slower pace than they’d like: i’m proud of u, healing and peace and safety will come soon. i believe it & believe in u
devotiontoself: connecting to another person means understanding that they are human and capable of mistakes. understand that they have a shadow that needs to be acknowledged, as well as a lifetime of conditioning and programming to recognize and release.
cheruib: breaking news: ur actually gonna make it through and everything will turn out just fine
sharmakeswife: i urge you to seek comfort in the fact that everything in the universe is subtly interconnected. it didn’t work out the way you wanted it to but you’ll end up where you need to be. keep your head up.
maroononthemoon: hasta-lala-uego: chokkilissa-nahollos: i understand that my friends don’t wanna talk every day. i understand that my s/o doesn’t wanna be lovey dovey and super indulgent every day. lots of people need rest from performative emotions.
officialaudreykitching: Forgiveness sets you free, but it also has its limits. At some point you have to turn that forgiveness around and give it to yourself for having endured so much mistreatment. Self love comes in many different ways.
thepersonalquotes:
kaitlynnlucas:Weird. This is mine. I made this piece in the final months of my undergrad.
faraashah: westerners are obsessed with the idea of happiness as if it’s a constant state of being. happiness comes in moments. you dont “achieve” happiness. you experience it along with every other emotion on the spectrum. if you spend your life
watsonshoneybee:the thing about everything is that it all gets easier with practice, so be careful what you practice
kilterstreet: self-healing: recovery is not ‘soon i will be untouched, perfect, and in a permanent state of bliss. i will be healed and all will be well, forever.’ recovery is ‘i will continue to survive despite what happens, i will find ways
madeofwhitebone: I’m all for self improvement and personal growth but the idea that you have to constantly do intense amounts of emotional/physical/academic/professional work at all times with no rest is an issue. And then, when we do allow ourselves
lovenotereminders: The goal of recovery isn’t to go back to the way things were before. You’ve grown and changed as a person, and that’s okay - it’s good; it’s natural. You’re not failing at recovery because you’re growing in a different
darkness-and-silence-forever: “To heal a wound you need to stop touching it.” — (via weeeezley)
onlinecounsellingcollege: “Just because you took longer than others doesn’t mean you failed. Remember that.” — Unknown
bob-belcher:
zodiacale:ok but I literally cannot emphasize the fact enough that you will be put through the same lessons over and over again until you learn them!!!! be conscious, recognize patterns!!! you won’t grow and things won’t change until you make the
6i: happiness comes in waves, it’ll find you again.
trvvel:everyday is a chance to be better
remind-me-of-you: minoritycode: 5:32am seen on rebloggy.com/photography
Reminder- that at 5PM EST I will be posting the Valentines YCH forms! :) Just giving a heads up a hour in advance since there seems to be a lot of interest!
Reminder: Women do not need to be polite to someone who is making them uncomfortable.
reminder (AGAIN)
Reminds me of when I had a little kitten in the pocket of my jacket in college.
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Reminder to self. jessicaobeys: Still waiting… Still believing.
Reminder that you can have 600 threads with me or only one, you can drop every thread you want to drop and start as many others as you want, you can reply to other people first and you can take all the time that you need without me stressing you out.
Reminds me of Santa Barbara
gunblades replied to your post:the anti-american vibe on this site is crazy. i…half the kids on here are huge weeaboos that just want to move to japan, forgetting the fact that japan has its own problems and it can be out the ass expensivei lived
Reminds me of Mortal Kombat for some reason
Reminds of getting milk at the farm..so much better than store bought, same with cum….fresh from the dispenser is always better *giggle*
reminds me of the old “you cant spell ignorant without IGN” shit going around gaming boards years ago
reminder that i own that game on cartridge
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Reminds me of a picture R sent me
2kawaii4u: http://www.bestbuy.com/site/the-legend-of-zelda-majoras-mask-3d-limited-edition-bundle-nintendo-3dsnintendo-3ds-xlnintendo-2ds/9507142.p?id=1219020252303&skuId=9507142&productCategoryId=pcmcat235500050004 if it doesn’t show up for
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taokaka: a furry got really mad at me in killing floor 2 Edit: I started singing Ring of Fire on mic because he had a southern accent and he screamed at me that he’s related to Johnny Cash that was a great kf game
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