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Open-minded people dont care to be right, they care to understand. There's never a right or wrong answer. Everything is about understanding.
marfmellow: some glo ups aint covered in make up and dipped in coconut oil. some are cold and wet in a strange way. some glo ups force you to throw away parts of yourself that no longer fit - no matter how long you’ve had them they. must. go. some
Your weirdness is attractive. If people don't understand, cool. It's not their job to. Your job? Be yourself. Connect with others like you.
Positive Message of the Day
Sometimes you gotta wake up and remember who the fuck you are.
arabwife: I plan on becoming the girl of my own dreams
kushandwizdom:Exactly
writingsforwinter: If you lose interest in someone, tell them. If you’re not looking for a relationship, tell the person you’re seeing. If you’re thinking of ghosting someone, tell them. If you can’t handle meeting up with someone after all,
arabwife: go M.I.A, remove yourself from everyone/everything, focus only on yourself, change your daily routines and make boss moves .
If I Had A World Of My Own...
goldenmochaa: tastemysweetkisses: I have to remind myself that everyone doesn’t have to understand me. Yes!! Because “everyone” isn’t paying me. Everyone isn’t contributing to my life, future, and/or wellbeing. Said it before, and I’ll
300it: blkbruja: I live for girls realizing their worth, demanding the respect they deserve and cutting off anything that brings negativity into their lives.
KUSHANDWIZDOM
Do Not Shrink Yourself For Someone Else’s Comfort
random life tips
smallyetbeautiful:sometimes being alone is the upgrade
daddxz: honestly as long as you’re happy who the hell cares.
yourfatfeministfriend: Your rebellion against societal beauty standards doesn’t have to be only during protests. Eating and dressing the way you want is one of the best ways to still protest society. Do these things and you will feel liberated. - daily
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Counselling Blog
youngblackandvegan: Destroy the idea that you have to be constantly working or grinding in order to be successful. Embrace the concept that rest, recovery, and reflection are essential parts of the progress towards a successful and ultimately happy life.
caffeinatedpositivity: you know what? It’s okay to talk about yourself. If you have a rough day and you wanna talk about it, talk about it. You’re excited about something? You can absolutely talk about that. You feel good about yourself today? You
4ins: Every once and a while you get a glimpse of the person you could be. Grab that. Hold on to that. Work for it. Nothing is out of reach.
tiredtrauma:You do not have to be productive, work at a job, or somehow “contribute to society” to be worth something or to deserve to live a happy life.
6lacksoul:
babyangel-jpg: Ur energy will always overcome ur appearance
reasoulful: “Everyday you spend working on yourself to be better than you were yesterday, isn’t only for you, but the betterment of everyone around you.” — Rachel Wolchin (via kushandwizdom)
reasoulful: “Confidence isn’t walking into a room with your nose in the air, and thinking you are better than everyone else, it’s walking into a room and not having to compare yourself to anyone else in the first place.” — (via atheologist)
rontieremodeled: My dreams are attainable and I will reach them. My dreams are attainable and I will reach them. My dreams are attainable and I will reach them. My dreams are attainable and I will reach them. My dreams are attainable and I will reach
duskbird: it’s scary how many people think they want to die when really they want to start living
thoughtkick: “Let it hurt. Let it bleed. Let it heal. And let it go.” — Nikita Gill
Things I don't do anymore
blood to me, dust to you
fatimamononoke: fatimamononoke: instead of getting high and feeling sorry for myself I cleaned my whole flat, did all the washing, did my skincare routine, and made myself some tea, I’m so proud of me. Can I just add that it’s also completely OKAY
flowerais:you can still radiate light if you’re sad. you can still be kind and soft-hearted if you’re a bit cynical. you don’t need to be the happiest person to make someone else’s day better.
k o k o r o
vibratehigherdaily: “The very moment you allow what happened to strengthen you, you win.” — Lalah Delia
6i:in your 20’s find a balance between hustle & rest. you don’t need to have a love life or a soulmate figured out. go travel the world. battle your demons. set up a business, find people who value your heart and yours will attract. don’t live
kingm0xley:To have this level of self assuredness
boggoth: bpdkipland: bpdkipland: my favorite picture ever is the one that says “HELL IS FULL, BITCH” and then it has the national suicide prevention hotline on it. it makes me smile every time THIS ONE!!!! I wonder who made these! I have this
purplebuddhaproject: “As long as you look for someone else to validate who you are by seeking their approval, you are setting yourself up for disaster. You have to be whole and complete in yourself. No one can give you that. You have to know who you
chrissongzzz: Take Notes.💯
kushandwizdom: “stop projecting your unresolved issues onto other people. take the time necessary to deal with what’s bothering you, then proceed.” — Iman Europe
studyblr: paul arden - it’s not how good you are, it’s how good you want to be.
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dailyatlanta: People don’t think there’s a process to being happy.
missmentelle: You can always start over. You can go back to school.You can quit your job. You can change careers. You can leave a bad relationship. You can leave an okay relationship. You can write that novel.You can write that song. You can learn
purplebuddhaproject: “Don’t run from a challenge. Instead run toward it because the only way to escape fear is to trample it beneath your feet.” — Nadia Comaneci (via purplebuddhaquotes)
purplebuddhaproject: “If you can sit with your pain, listen to your pain, and respect your pain - in time you will move through your pain.” — Bryant McGill (via purplebuddhaquotes)
niggasandcomputers: -YOU ARE IN CONTROL OF WHAT HAPPENS TO YOU. -YOU HAVE TO VISIUALIZE AND PLAN THE PERSON THAT YOU WANT TO BE. - YOU HAVE TO USE THAT VISION TO EXECUTE THAT PLAN IN EVERY CHOICE YOU MAKE
mysticalcoffeequeen:Cut off your dead ends for growth and I’m not just talking about your hair
vlones: Never apologize for leaving a situation to make yourself happier. your health matters and your happiness is important.
Some Things to Remember…
halaa-bilzaaain:be good, do good, look good
peanutbuttersunrise: TOUCHING PEOPLE’S LIVES IN A POSITIVE WAY IS AS CLOSE AS I CAN GET TO AN IDEA OF RELIGION. BELIEF IN ONE’S SELF IS ONLY A MIRROR OF BELIEF IN OTHER PEOPLE AND EVERY PERSON. -KEITH HARING JOURNALS, AGE 28
horreure: Martin Margiela, i-D April 1998
sunflorally: you are still a good person even if you tell them no. you are not bad for denying someone or something, especially if you usually say yes to appease them. do not feel bad for not agreeing. do not feel bad for saying no. do not let someone
nutella-and-bowties: stop apologizing for your presence. stop putting your worth in other people’s eyes. stop assuming the worst.
